Monday, December 1, 2014

Step Six - Key Questions Step Seven - The Basic Ingrdient

                
                 Having completed Steps One through Five, there are some fundamental recovery questions in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous that must be answered before we can move on.
                                     
                               1) Have we omitted anything?
                               2) Is our work solid so far?
                               3) Are the stones properly in place?
                               4) Have we skipped on the cement put into the foundation? 
                               5) Have we tried to make motor without sand?
If we can answer these questions in the affirmative, then we have completed the first five steps in such a way that we have acquired the humility necessary to be entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
                  The Big Book of AA states "if we can answer to our satisfaction, we then look at Step Six.  We have emphasized willingness as being indispensable.  Are we now ready to let God remove from us all the things which we have admitted are objectionable?  Can God now take them all, every one?  If we can answer in the affirmative we have then completed Step Six.


                 The Seventh Step of Alcoholics Anonymous is "humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings."  In the Step Book it states "this lack of anchorage to any permanent values, this blindness to the true purpose of our lives produced another bad result, for just as long as we convinced ourselves that we could live by our own individual strength and intelligence, for just that long was a working faith in a higher power impossible.  This was true even though we believed God existed.  As long as we placed self reliance first a genuine reliance upon a higher power was impossible.  THE BASIC INGREDIENT of all humility, a desire to seek and do God's will was missing."
                 I have learned through experience that belief in God is not enough, that we must trust in God in every area of our lives, even as our every day life unfolds.  The purpose of the program of Alcoholics Anonymous is to bring us from a thought process propelled by our human desires to a thought process propelled by the will of God.  In the will of God our defects that exist in our human nature cannot possibly be manifested in our behavior.  And it is only through true humility, a desire to seek and do God's will, that can occur.  We can free ourselves from the bondage of self, we can trust in God in all things and if so we are protected from the disease of Alcoholism.   

4 comments:

  1. Having faced complete defeat and no where else to turn. This is what happened to this alcoholic. I truly was faced with this life or death situation. Did I want to die or not ? Of course not , the reality was that I wanted to live but didn't know how to . Alcohol made many false promises, and never came through. I knew I had paid the price of Admission. Even though my mind told me that I had another drink in me , my heart said no. I began to really listen to other A.A.'s who found a solution. I had to do what was suggested in order to recover. Steps 1 thru 3 had taken me to a place I had never been before! Admitting powerlessness , and believing that power from another source could restore me to sanity. I then had a decision to make. By listing all my resentments, fears, and sexual conducts I came face to face with God through the eyes of another human being . I had to be thoroughly honest. All the pieces must be set in place entirely .
    At that point I was entirely ready to have these defects removed from me , then humbly ask to have these defects be removed . The key ingredient is prayer . Now I must rely in the power of prayer, it's in this power that my life is to be led, led by a power greater than myself .

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  2. The difference in my life today is directly proportionate to the work I do to incorporate The Twelve Steps into my life. Without being able to affirmatively answer the questions posed following taking Steps One through Five, I will never acquire the humility necessary to enlighten my spirit or the trust to enable me to live in God's Will. Over the years I have learned that simply not drinking and going to meetings was not enough. I never drank but I never found the peace of mind that only real Recovery brings. The greatest benefit of thoroughly following the path outlined in The Big Book of AA is that I met The Higher Power within me along the way. That, for me, is living a new and happier life.

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  3. Don Thank you for your experience. Honesty ,humility and prayer are essential if we are to recover from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body....Armand

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  4. Michael As your personal experience proves making meetings but not incorporating the actual program of Alcoholics Anonymous can lead to a life free of alcohol but still suffering from untreated alcoholism...Thank you so much...Armand

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