As sponsors in Alcoholics Anonymous we must live the principles of the program if we are to have the integrity it takes to present the principles of AA to others. We have come to understand that our very lives as ex-problem drinkers are dependent upon the lives we are called to help. Our lives take on a purpose and meaning that we have not experienced before.
In the "Big Book" of Alcoholics Anonymous in the chapter "Working With Others" it states, "Practical experience shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics... You can help when no one else can... Remember they are very ill. Life will take on a new meaning. To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends - this is an experience you must not miss. We know you will not want to miss it. Frequent contact with newcomers and with each other is the bright spot of our lives."
There is nothing that we can do with ourselves that is more important then helping someone else recover from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body. Nothing. In order for this recovery to occur for them in its purest form, those we are helping must develop a personal relationship with God. It is through such a relationship with Him that they will recover. It is through this relationship that they will know serenity, peace and joy, maybe even for the first time in their lives.
Obviously none of this can possibly occur for others if it has not occurred for us - as we cannot give away that which we don't have. Live this life through Him and in helping others do the same, you will be living within the bright spot of your life.
Written by Armand
Written by Armand
It is my understanding that the Light that is within us must first be activated in order to really know and experience the bright spot in others. Light begets light. In the program of recovery I have learned that self-searching is the means by which we bring vision, action, and grace to bear upon the dark and negative side of our natures. By integrating all Twelve Steps into my life in such a way that they have become my life, I now enjoy the privilege of frequent contact with other recovering alcoholics. As you point out, it is my responsibility to locate the light within me through The Power Within me - and then to give it all away. Thus, I can see the bright spot in others and live in the lightness of my own being.
ReplyDeleteMichael it is in the helping of others that has given us a real purpose in life. The depth and completeness of our own surrender will be a beacon for the depth and completeness of the surrender of those we are called to help...Thank you...Armand
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ReplyDeleteOnce the Gift of Life is received, there is an almost instantaneous change in paradigm. We become immersed in the incredible value and unspeakable love God has for each and every one of us. One of the greatest blessings received and fondest memories recalled is to have been present when you first came to believe that God Himself is the ultimate author of the 12 steps of AA and then bear witness as you received Him and His Gift to confidently confirm to others that the yearnings of every heart consumed by desperation, fear and trepidation can only be satisfied by a true spiritual conversion and fellowship with the Lover of our souls. As you surrendered yourself to The Master and hands were laid upon you His gift of the Holy Spirit to fully apprehend God's revelation, that He personally and continuously reaches out to each and every one of His errant children with fiery passion and boundless love, no matter how far we have strayed from His Light, opened the door to the ultimate and ongoing gift and revelation that He desires that all be joint "sponsor's" of that plan.
Whenever I pass by the small stone chapel where your conversion and ministry began I fondly recall that day we furtively entered. I knew the doors are rarely if ever open and its seldom if ever used, but that one day we found it was unlocked, warm and full of life. That above all confirmed for me in space and time that we were there by Divine appointment. My witness as a partaker of that sublime meeting and the continuing miraculous reality of its effects are as clear today as it was many years ago. Over time I watched as you took up His call with complete abandon. He has used your unique personality, talents, culture and experiences as an inspiration to a great many others desperately seeking the only true release from the seemingly inescapable internal prison of alcohol and self obsession.
This world is a far better place because you said yes to His invitation and have been faithful and true to His call. May He continue to richly bless His children through the ministry He has provided them through you and all whom He has called. May you continue to recall and boldly share His glorious intervention until you finally meet Him, face to face, the one true and living God through Jesus Christ.
A Gratefully Recovering Alcoholic.
a Gratefully Recovering Alcoholic thank you for being with me not only on that day but many others. The world is a better place because of you Emil...Thank you...Armand
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