After sharing the fifth step with myself and another human being, after exhibiting a sense of humility, after acquiring a clarity of mind and a sense of peace I braced myself for the final piece of the step - to admit to God the exact nature of my wrongs. I met my sponsor outside a small chapel on a day just like any other, I thought ... until he swung open the chapel doors. I looked down the center isle to the alter and became immediately aware of the quietness and state of holiness that existed. I froze and swallowed hard, realizing that the next few moments were going to be as profound as any other in all of my life. In that time, that place, and in that moment I was to seek the forgiveness of God for all I had done wrong in the past. Together, my sponsor and I slowly knelt down and he prayed for us in a way that only he would do. When he was finished I shared the exact nature of my wrongs with God - I had then completed the fifth step.Since then I have participated in many fifth steps with alcoholics and addicts that I have read the Big Book with. It is altogether a very humbling experience to be a part of - making me feel the utmost of helpful as a human being and supplying a sense of wholeness to lives. Once I did a fifth step with someone and as we were leaving the Church he said, "I know that for centuries people like you have helped people like me do exactly what we did today... but today was the day that I had the opportunity to be a part of it."
Yes, it is a remarkable experience to feel the nearness of God and to share that with another. It is an experience that is not meant to be missed. It is a complete cleansing of the past and, in turn, a receiving of the gift of forgiveness and a clean slate - all built upon a new relationship with God.
Written by Armand
If The Fourth Step is looking into the mirror, Step Five enables us to look directly at another human being and, in effect, change the mirror forever. The remaining Steps of The Program of Recovery re-create our lives through the awareness and presence of The Power Within us Who is the Light in all things and in all ways. In taking The Fifth Step, I made a break from the self-centeredness and fear that had possessed me, and from the pride that impelled me. In truth, taking this Step with my sponsor was not a hair-raising event. Rather, it was calming and certain and clean. A Step, not only in a new direction, but into a new life that needed more work in order manifest itself in my thinking and in my behavior. As you point out, the reward of hearing another alcoholic's Fifth Step is a vital part of the spiritual awakening we are promised in Step Twelve. Helping to make mortar out of sand, we can walk hand-in-hand on the Broad Highway of The Universe. Not as the man I was but as the man I was created to be.
ReplyDeleteMichael the result of integrating the 12 Steps into our life is that we maximize our human potential by becoming the human being that God created us to be. There we are complete...Thank you...Armand
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ReplyDeleteBless you again for sharing your personal experience of that miraculous event I was so blessed to have witnessed. Especially, the all too real feelings of impending doom that precede this most holy conversation. But the floor beneath doesn't drop away, nor do we plunge head first into some fiery pit of self imposed eternal damnation. Remarkably, we are met instead by a tidal wave of limitless Mercy, and Love. We discover that the very God of eternity, the One whom we had cursed, rejected and at times despised has been all the while; patiently, watchfully and yes joyfully waiting in that very place to reunite with His errant child.
Before we utter a word we discover He envelops the humble attitude of our hearts with a Love and Compassion beyond telling. But, like the "Prodigal" written of in Luke 15:11-32 we continue our "confession" anyway, even as waves of forgiveness wash away every remaining vestige of gilt and shame associated with our past. And as we receive Him in our hearts we discover He has already received us in His, as our only Savior, Lord and perpetually Loving Father. In that eternal instant we become, literally... A new creation.
But the encounter isn't finished... It's only just begun, for He imparts to us not only Peace in His presence but an unquenchable desire to encounter Him more completely, and to exercise the power contained in the newly discovered gifts He has bestowed as fully embraced and lovingly cherished members of His eternal family. We discover that the insurmountable wall of mystery that once concealed the "Simple" in the "Program of AA" has been removed, completely swept away by the unseen Hand of the God who created us to experience this very moment and many more yet to be discovered. "Praise be to Him who's mercies endure forever" and thank you Armand, and everyone who has come after, for you're unbending desire, no matter the cost, to become His humble servant and a partaker of His ministry through the 12 Steps of AA that are inarguably grounded in the immutable Word of God and His Holy Spirit that provides the breath of eternal life.
A Gratefully Recovering Alcoholic.
A Gratefully Recovering Alcoholic certainly a special moment that is experienced by all who earnestly seek...Thank you...Armand
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